Newly diagnosed what’s next?

I relate to what you are saying. 20 years I’ve had this. Tried so many pills. Now foods are bothering me. Trying to narrow done the specific ones. I have wonderful grandchildren that don’t understand why grandma doesn’t go outside much, her feet turn brilliant red and are hot. I’ve tried explaining. They are so sweet. I want to take them on picnics, the park, swimming, etc. I just don’t understand why I have this disease and there’s no cure.