Hi Elizabeth,
Listen - i had the same struggle. I was close to suicide this year with it all.My life has been taken from me. Im bedridden and disabled by EM. I have LOTS of research validating lidocaine/mexil treatment. Lidocaine is used either as a one off test to see if you respond to sodium channel blocker or as a treatment depending on your response. Mexil is used with or without lidocaine . Bennett does not have to be involved. You need pain management clinic/specialist. Mexil is helping me - its a miracle! Lamotigine does not help- it causes more painful side effects and calf cramping - i tried it. It is not an analog of lidocaine so thats why no effect. Elizabeth either message me your number privately or phone me- ill send u my number. I know what you are going through - so does laura... we all do. I know you are getting worn down not only physically but emotionally but stay strong. Relief - to some degree is available but you have to fight for it. I never thought i would get any release or respite from this but after taking mexil for 2 months i now have fleeting moments of respite and I am starting to walk very tentatively and only few steps a day with sticks.That is such a miracle.I still cant believe that mexil is helping me like this.
. To reiterate - i have EM everywhere. It started in right knee - went to feet- other knee- legs- both hands, arms- scalp- ears- eyes and internally( like a cystitis thing).I am in constant flare mode - with and without the lobster redness. Ive had 2 operations on swollen eyes before they realised it was EM too. Take photos daily, keep diary, go to GP every week, monitor your BP , pulse tends to be low and contact PALS. Listen, if you have EM or any refractory pain its unethical in UK to with hold treatment. Drs , specialists dont know or understand the disease like we do.You need to educate them.
You say its pointless re: pain clinic. No- its not. You have to keep on at them, on at your GP for them to take you seriously. Another route I took was - accident/emergency. Go and be admitted - just do it- tell them about the pain - you cant stand it anymore - they will run tests/observations, which , as we know, will be negative BUT they will advise immediate referral to pain clinic on discharge sheet. That sheet and the A/E route gives you more kudos to 'how ill you are'. Shouldnt be so but it is. As i said. phone me. We can talk.
God bless
mads x